Grow UP!!

So earlier yesterday me and my friend were texting each other and we were talking about the fact that I don't drink and the fact that I'm a home body and I really don't like going out much. And she made a statement about me not being able to find my husband unless I start going out more. And that statement really struck a cord in me and not in a good way, in a bad way. Because I completely disagree with that statement. I don't feel like I need to go out more to find my husband.
I know that God already has it set in stone for me and my husband to meet wherever, however, whenever it's meant for us to meet. Even if it's at the grocery store, the park, wherever it may be. God will have both of us be there at the exact same time because that will be how we are meant to meet. But I don't feel like I need to start going out more just to meet my husband, it will happen exactly how God has it set to happen. I don't have to step outside of my comfort zone and do things that aren't me, aren't who I am and aren't the type of person that I am to meet my husband.